We live in a world where we are constantly told:
“Never give up.”
“Keep going no matter what.”
“Winners never quit.”
But what if I told you something different?
Please give up just once in your life.
Not because you are weak.
Not because you’ve failed.
But because there is something powerful waiting for you on the other side of surrender.
Sometimes, You Need to Give Up
- To stop forcing
- To stop pushing
- To stop pretending everything is okay
And just… breathe.
Because when you give up even once something inside you shifts.
- The pressure lifts
- The lens clears
- The noise fades
And suddenly, you begin to see life not as something to control,
But as something to feel, to honor, to understand.
Giving Up Isn’t Weakness — It’s Awareness
When you surrender, you discover:
- Who you are without the fight
- What you’ve been carrying too long
- The real reason why you started in the first place
Ask yourself:
- Was I doing this for love?
- For validation?
- For ego?
- For fear?
Most People Don’t Give Up Because They’re Lazy
They give up because they are exhausted.
Because they’ve poured so much of themselves into something that no longer nourishes them.
And yet…
No one ever tells us that it’s okay to walk away.
That sometimes, the greatest strength lies in surrender.
That letting go is not failure — it is clarity.
When You Give Up…
- You observe
- You reflect
- You learn
- You stop pushing
- You start listening
- You become the witness, not the warrior
And that’s when the truth begins to rise.
You may realise:
- You gave up something that was draining your soul
- Or you gave up something that was meant for you — but now you understand why it didn’t work
Now, you know better.
Now, you’re wiser.
Now, you see what needs to change.
So Yes Give Up. Just Once.
Let go of the pressure to keep going when your soul says: pause.
Give up to meet yourself at a deeper level.
Give up to reset your direction.
Give up to remember your reason.
Give up so you can rise —
Not from burnout…
But from understanding.
Giving Up Is Not the Opposite of Success
Sometimes…
It is the doorway to it.
So if you are standing on the edge,
Wondering whether to quit,
To pause,
To walk away…
Let me say this to you gently:
Please give up. Just once in your life.
And watch what happens next.
You may find that life is not falling apart —
It is falling into place.
With love and blessings,
Soniya Ragevan
Author of Till We Meet, My Love 🎁🌹🙋🤗💗💕